Posts tagged: Kouga Yun
In the almost-a-decade I’ve been in the English-speaking Loveless fandom, I’ve noticed a wide range of reactions to the characters and relationships in the series. I’ve had amazing conversations about characterization and motives with some really wonderful people… and on the flip side, I’ve seen a large segment of the fandom who would rather coo over how cute Soubi/Ritsuka is as a pairing than examine the ways it isn’t cute.
I’ll admit that all those years ago, it was the cuteness aspect that got me into Loveless. But I stayed interested because of Kouga Yun’s talent for writing incredibly screwed-up characters realistically, while acknowledging that they’re unhealthy and that their actions have consequences. As an abuse survivor myself, it means a great deal to me to be able to see realistically portrayed survivors in a series I love - and it bothers me that people are so quick to overlook what I feel is one of Loveless’ main draws.
Under the cut, I look at the main abusers in the Loveless universe, and how their actions affect the other characters and the plot.
Amen to all that! (Except to some finer points of your take on Soubi’s psychology, but that’s beside the point right now.) Really, when people start going on about how cute Soubi and Ritsuka’s kisses are and how we need to see more of them in canon, I always wonder if they deliberately ignore the fact that every time that Soubi kisses Ritsuka, he physically restraints him, either by forcefully holding his face still or by trapping Ritsuka’s wrists to prevent him from getting away. Every. Single. One.
And that’s not kawaii.
Especially because Soubi is well aware that Ritsuka is emotionally fragile and ready to go to any length to be loved, as witnessed by his comments during their ride to Goura with Kio or after seeing Ritsuka standing up for his mother after she hurt him during one of her episodes. I totally admit being a big sucker for shared hugs between them because Ritsuka actually wants to be hugged and to be honest, he *really* needs to be hugged (okay, scratch that, given all that is going on in his life right now, *I* need badly someone to hug him and to tell him that everything is going to be okay), but anything else is really pushing the envelope, and was even pictured this way in the story; even the male Zero called out Soubi on his “friendly" kisses.
But then, Soubi was never pictured as a perfectly nice character to begin with. Someone who is hurting, yes, but also someone who can’t stop himself from hurting others, precisely because he’s hurting.
(Also, ten years in the fandom!? Wow, that’s some staying power!)
The abuse is even more wide spread than this post makes it sound. Nagisa is abusive to both sets of zeroes she creates. She creates human beings, and beyond biological manipulation, she believes she has the right to treat them however she wants. It is more than a mentor-ship relationship, as she plays favorites and tells her “children” to discard their pairs and in general do horrible things to others.
Ritsuka’s doctor treats that relationship inappropriately.
Even in the lighter school chapters, there is rampant abuse. Yuiko is bullied in school and neglected at home - forced to eat convenient store food and entertain herself. It might be less graphic than some of the other abuse, but neglect and bullying have clearly left her with a giant lack of self esteem.
Kio seems to come from an abusive family as well, through the effects of a tradition that sees him excluded from his family. It’s nicely mirroring the abuse in the academy structure of sending young children to fight and maim each other in the name of tradition and sacred bonds.
But what I think the series shows best about abuse is the idea of the cycle of violence. Soubi learns his abusive tendencies from his abusers, and their ruination of his own sense of agency has left him right on the path to becoming an abuser himself. A lot of the pairs we meet seem to have abusive tendencies, either to each other or others they encounter, and we know that the system of preparing them to be a bonded pair is abusive and rewards violence.
Misaki is another example of how abuse in Loveless (realistically) creates further situations for abuse. Misaki was manipulated by Seimei, and more or less neglected by her husband. In the newer chapters, it seems that her memories have been manipulated, either through spells or psychological abuse.
I think Ritsuka’s strength in the series comes from the fact that so far, he has resisted propagating that system of abuse - to the point where he sometimes overextends his compassion. Despite his facade of coldness, he goes out of his way to help people - to defend Yuiko against bullies, even before they become friends, forgive both pairs of Zeroes, and call of battles before inflicted too much harm. He is so concerned with the feelings of others that he denies them to himself. He’s willingness to engage with Soubi despite his own discomfort - to stand up for his mother, despite her abuse towards him. At first, I read this as a victim coming to blame themselves and accept their abuse as “deserved” and I think, at the beginning of the manga, that is a lot of what is going on. But I think as he matures and becomes more sure of himself, rather than let himself become overrun by the world of abuse around him, Ritsuka seeks to understand the pain and mend it where he can. He goes out of his way to avoid causing pain.
I have my own theory as to what the name Loveless means in the context of his manga. “Love” is tied in so heavily with abuse and harm in this series and even more so when it associated with fighter/sacrifice pairs. The rhetoric behind the dynamic is full of emotional and psychological abuse - talk of destiny and ownership, wrapped together in a dangerous package. The only pairs we see have a remotely healthy love for each other (as opposed to abusive love, annomosity, or more of a friendship) are either very new to the dynamic or have actively dissociated themselves from the world of Seven Moons (like the Zeroes.)
Thus, “Love” in the context of names, is linked with abuse and manipulation and power. Look no further than the name “Beloved” whose barer truly loves no one, but manipulates everyone.
His opposite is Ritsuka’s blunt honest and desire to find good in other people. Ritsuka avoids the manipulation and grasps at power that seems to encapsulate the word “love” in much of the Loveless world. By avoiding this kind of poisonous “love” he is Loveless.